I got to know a really nice couple yesterday; he's been a member for a long time and she's come to church for something like 20 years (but is not a member). Anyway I was going to meet the missionaries over there to watch a movie (I think it's called Praise to the Man), but they never showed up (they are really, really bad about respecting people's time). So we chatted for a half-hour and I feel like I really got to know them (I've been over to there house before, and we talk almost every Sunday, but it's mostly church related). 

Well, when the missionaries didn't show up I was glad I had taken a few minutes to read my scriptures as there are a lot of really good verses in Mosiah chapters 7-9. So I guess the moral of the story is that you don't have to be all church all the time but it helps to read your scriptures every now and then.